Praise Them For-

Do kids feel entitled

For praises from parents and luxuries of life

For their Looks, their Intellect and Status in friends
Comparing each other with their fancy games 

Do they throw random blames and tantrums

When they don’t get what they desire

Do you praise them often

For things that’s not really in their hand

“ Oh you are so pretty like a princess ”

“ Oh you are the most intelligent kid ”

Well “IQ” and “looks” are genetically inherited 

It’s “ God given” and not earned - you see

If kids feel that they are at “center”
How will they learn to empathize and grow?
Love is unconditional from parent for sure
But responsibilities and consequences-kids should know

Instead let’s praise them for what they “Do”

For kindness and curiosity that they show  

Let’s praise their good hearted intents and efforts

Let’s praise the world they build with their own actions

-praj101